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Bringing home a puppy is one of life’s greatest joys. There’s nothing quite like watching them explore the world with wide-eyed curiosity, experiencing everything for the first time. But as much as those wiggly tails and puppy kisses steal our hearts, we also know that raising a well-mannered, confident dog doesn’t happen by accident—it happens through patience, trust, and thoughtful training.A well-behaved dog isn’t just one who listens to cues. It’s a dog who feels safe in their world, knows how to navigate new situations with confidence, and trusts their human to guide them with kindness.As a certified canine behavior consultant, my approach to training focuses on building resilience, fostering agency, and preventing behavior challenges before they start. Whether you’re raising a tiny pup or working with a newly adopted dog, let’s talk about what it really takes to help them grow into the best version of themselves.&nbsp; <figure id="figure-b4i97ibdivm8j47719"><img id="b4i97ibdivm8j47719" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1370281227/photo/studio-portrait-of-smiling-young-african-american-girl-holding-little-dog.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=dAwYW4Q0cVY1UOsxWcbBPd4KlkfEFbD_Wbvnb2YZz6M=" alt="Studio portrait of smiling young african american girl holding little dog" title="Studio portrait of smiling young african american girl holding little dog" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1370281227/photo/studio-portrait-of-smiling-young-african-american-girl-holding-little-dog.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=dAwYW4Q0cVY1UOsxWcbBPd4KlkfEFbD_Wbvnb2YZz6M=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Building Confidence Through Safe Exposure One of the greatest gifts we can give our puppies is confidence—the ability to move through the world without fear, knowing they are safe. But confidence doesn’t come from simply exposing them to everything all at once. It comes from thoughtful, positive experiences where they feel in control.The Right Kind of Socialization We’ve all heard that socialization is important, but what does that really mean? It’s not about making sure your puppy meets a hundred people in a week or visiting every busy park in the city. True socialization is about teaching them how to feel safe in new situations.That’s why I always recommend letting puppies observe before they engage. Let them take in new sounds, sights, and people at their own pace—without being rushed or overwhelmed. When puppies know they have a choice in interactions, their confidence blossoms.This idea of structured, trust-based exposure is exactly what we focus on in our Puppy Coach program. Through hands-on coaching, we teach you how to introduce new experiences in a way that helps your puppy feel secure, not stressed. But sometimes, a little extra help is needed—especially for busy pet parents who want to make sure their puppy gets these critical early experiences without worrying about doing it all themselves. That’s where our Puppy Nanny program comes in. Our trainers carefully guide your pup through new experiences, making sure each one builds confidence instead of fear.Because when a puppy learns that the world is safe? That’s when they truly thrive. <figure id="figure-k95k47ql79m8j48k6b"><img id="k95k47ql79m8j48k6b" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/918369184/photo/vet-at-her-clinic-checking-a-baby-dachshunds-heart-with-a-stethoscope-while-she-smiles-very.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=sWqkyOD6Gu4SOVLnPrGsQrj3MyO3Ha9t4yQv9Gq79qk=" alt="Vet at her clinic checking a baby dachshund's heart with a stethoscope while she smiles very happy" title="Vet at her clinic checking a baby dachshund's heart with a stethoscope while she smiles very happy" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/918369184/photo/vet-at-her-clinic-checking-a-baby-dachshunds-heart-with-a-stethoscope-while-she-smiles-very.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=sWqkyOD6Gu4SOVLnPrGsQrj3MyO3Ha9t4yQv9Gq79qk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Consent-Based Handling &amp; Training Think about the last time you went to the dentist. Wasn’t it easier to sit still when they told you what was happening, gave you breaks, and let you feel like you had some control? Puppies feel the same way. When they’re forced into handling without choice, they learn to resist—but when we give them agency, they learn to trust.How to Make Handling a Positive Experience Instead of wrestling your puppy into a harness, forcing them into a bath, or grabbing their paws for a nail trim, we can teach them to participate willingly in their own care. A puppy who learns that grooming, vet visits, and handling come with patience, treats, and choice is a puppy who doesn’t just tolerate care—but enjoys it.In The Puppy Coach program, we help owners learn how to introduce grooming and handling in a way that builds trust. We teach simple but powerful techniques, like chin rests and voluntary paw lifts, so your pup feels like a partner in their own care. And for those who want help setting the foundation first, our Puppy Nanny trainers work hands-on to get your puppy comfortable with handling before teaching you how to continue that progress at home.The goal isn’t just cooperation—it’s a dog who feels safe and understood.&nbsp;<figure id="figure-m5ui5aemfm8j4a6zg"><img id="m5ui5aemfm8j4a6zg" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/499294314/photo/puppy-with-shoe-slipper.jpg?b=1&s=2048x2048&w=0&k=20&c=GaISeKuLwH3uAzIs97lL-C8WOwky8yI2_nkBoOkqSv4=" alt="puppy with shoe slipper" title="puppy with shoe slipper" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionX="undefined" data-positionY="undefined" data-fullWidth="false"/></figure> Preventing Behavior Problems Before They Start Many of the behavior challenges we see in adult dogs—reactivity, separation anxiety, impulse control issues—start in puppyhood. But the good news? Most of them are preventable.1. Teaching Independent Coping Skills Dogs who are never taught how to be alone often struggle with separation anxiety later in life. The key is to start early—creating positive alone-time experiences before they ever learn to worry about it.In Puppy Coach, we guide owners through simple steps that prevent separation distress, like building safe, enriching alone-time experiences. And if your puppy is already struggling to settle alone, our Puppy Nanny program steps in to gently shape independence through structured training sessions.2. Encouraging Play with Emotional Regulation Play is essential for puppies, but not all play is healthy. Some puppies struggle to wind down, while others get frustrated when play escalates too fast. Teaching puppies how to take breaks, self-regulate, and play appropriately is just as important as teaching them how to sit.We focus on these skills in Puppy Coach, helping owners guide their pups toward balanced, healthy play styles. But for puppies who need extra structure, our Puppy Nanny trainers work hands-on to teach impulse control through play, making sure good habits develop from the start.3. Reinforcing Calmness &amp; Focus from Day One A well-behaved dog isn’t just one who “listens”—it’s one who knows how to settle, focus, and make good choices on their own. We teach these skills by rewarding moments of calm and reinforcing focus in real-life situations.In Puppy Coach, we show you how to naturally weave these lessons into everyday life, from quiet observation on walks to structured settling exercises. But if life is hectic and you’d rather have someone else set that foundation first, Puppy Nanny can help, ensuring your puppy learns these essential skills before they become habits you have to fix later.&nbsp; Which Approach is Right for You? Some puppy parents love being hands-on in the training process, learning alongside their pup and shaping their behavior in real time. If that’s you, Puppy Coach is a perfect fit—it’s an interactive, rewarding experience where you and your puppy grow together.But maybe life is a little too busy right now, and you just need an expert to lay the groundwork. That’s where Puppy Nanny comes in—our trainers do the work for you, carefully shaping good behavior so that when it’s time for you to step in, the hard part is already done.Either way, the goal is the same: a confident, well-adjusted puppy who grows into the dog you’ve always dreamed of.&nbsp; A Well-Behaved Dog Starts Today Raising a puppy is an adventure—one filled with challenges, joy, and countless moments of learning. But the good news? You don’t have to do it alone.Whether you’re excited to take on training with Puppy Coach or want a little extra help from Puppy Nanny, we’re here to make sure you and your puppy start off on the right paw.Which approach feels right for you? Let’s talk! We can’t wait to help you and your pup thrive.

From Puppy to Pro: The Journey to a Well-Behaved Dog

<h3>The Evolution of Humane Training: From Balanced Training to the Hierarchy of Dog Needs</h3>Dog training has come a long way, and thank goodness for that. Gone are the days when leash jerks, prong collars, and shock devices were the go-to tools for "fixing" behavior. Today, we know better, and we do better. Science-backed, humane training methods are leading the way, prioritizing not just obedience but a dog's emotional and physical well-being. We’re not just asking, How do I get my dog to listen?—we're also asking, How do I help my dog feel safe, confident, and understood?This transformation didn’t happen overnight. It’s been a journey—one that started with "balanced training" (using both reinforcement and punishment), moved through the Least Invasive, Minimally Aversive (LIMA) framework, progressed to the Humane Hierarchy, and now embraces the Hierarchy of Dog Needs (HDN), which puts an even greater emphasis on agency and consent in training.From Balanced Training to LIMA: A Step in the Right Direction For a long time, the training world operated under the assumption that dogs needed both rewards and corrections to learn. Trainers used leash pops, slip chains, and prong collars because that was just "how things were done." Then came the rise of balanced training, which combined positive reinforcement with aversive tools like shock, prong, and choke collars. The idea was that a "balanced" approach made for a well-rounded dog. But as we started digging into the science, we learned that punishment-based training doesn’t just cause stress and fear—it can actually make behavior problems worse.In response to these findings, the dog training industry moved toward LIMA (Least Invasive, Minimally Aversive)—a principle that encourages trainers to use the gentlest, most effective methods possible. This was a big step forward, but LIMA still left the door open for aversive tools when deemed "necessary."The Humane Hierarchy: Refining Our Approach Enter the Humane Hierarchy, a structured decision-making framework adopted by organizations like the International Association of Animal Behavior Consultants (IAABC) and the Certification Council for Professional Dog Trainers (CCPDT). This model refined LIMA by creating a step-by-step process for choosing training interventions, prioritizing humane and effective techniques first.<figure id="figure-xdlmr9tyrm821skbs"><img id="xdlmr9tyrm821skbs" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/14Q561YZqrwwuf16bwX72Bljcu7TdSVBuzTKqzKacKhC8cjDK976SNaQHxTfp83q.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 3/2; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="3:2" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/14Q561YZqrwwuf16bwX72Bljcu7TdSVBuzTKqzKacKhC8cjDK976SNaQHxTfp83q.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 3/2; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure>The Levels of the Humane Hierarchy<ol><li>Health, Nutrition, and Physical Well-Being Before addressing behavior, we have to rule out medical issues. Pain, illness, or poor nutrition can cause behavior problems that no amount of training will fix. </li><li>Antecedent Arrangements (Managing the Environment) The simplest solution is often just setting the dog up for success. If a dog barks at passersby, closing the blinds or using window film can reduce the trigger. </li><li>Positive Reinforcement (R+) The heart of ethical training—rewarding good behavior so it happens more often. Sit instead of jump? Yes, please. Treats, toys, play—whatever makes your dog’s tail wag. </li><li>Differential Reinforcement, Negative Punishment (P-) Teaching an alternative behavior while removing reinforcement for unwanted ones. If a dog jumps up for attention, ignoring them until they sit helps them learn a better way. </li><li>Negative Reinforcement (R-) The gray area. This involves removing something unpleasant to encourage behavior, like stopping forward movement when a dog pulls on a leash. It works, but it’s not ideal. </li><li>Positive Punishment (P+) The last resort. Using aversive corrections like leash pops or verbal scolding can damage trust, increase fear, and often lead to unintended consequences. The Humane Hierarchy was a huge improvement, but the conversation didn’t stop there.</li></ol>The Hierarchy of Dog Needs: Beyond Training, Toward Well-Being Training isn’t just about shaping behavior—it’s about supporting a dog’s whole well-being. Enter the Hierarchy of Dog Needs (HDN), developed by Linda Michaels, M.A., which builds on the Humane Hierarchy by considering not just training techniques but also emotional fulfillment, social bonds, and cognitive needs. This model brings two groundbreaking concepts into the conversation: agency (the ability for dogs to make choices) and consent (allowing dogs to participate willingly in interactions and training).The Hierarchy of Dog Needs Consists of Five Key Levels:<ol><li>Biological Needs – A dog can’t learn if they’re hungry, sick, or stressed. Proper nutrition, veterinary care, and a comfortable environment are foundational. </li><li>Emotional Well-Being – Dogs experience emotions just like we do. They need social connection, safety, and consistency to thrive. </li><li>Social Needs – Just like people, dogs need relationships. Positive interactions with other dogs, people, and their environment build confidence and resilience. </li><li>Force-Free Training &amp; Behavior Modification – The gold standard. Training should be cooperative, using positive reinforcement and fear-free handling. </li><li>Cognitive Needs, Consent, and Agency – The pinnacle of modern training. Dogs should have opportunities to make choices, engage in problem-solving, and say no when they’re uncomfortable.</li></ol>Why This Evolution Matters Each shift in the way we train dogs has been a step toward greater understanding, compassion, and respect. Moving from Balanced Training to LIMA, from LIMA to the Humane Hierarchy, and now to the Hierarchy of Dog Needs, we are finally seeing dogs for who they really are—not just as animals to be controlled, but as thinking, feeling beings who deserve to be heard.At See Spot Behave, we believe training is more than just teaching commands—it’s about building trust and partnership. When we listen to our dogs, respect their choices, and create an environment where they feel safe and confident, we see real progress. If you’re ready to embrace a training approach that puts your dog’s well-being first, we’d love to help.<figure id="figure-4w4yksgjgm8227hr3" class=""><img id="4w4yksgjgm8227hr3" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/14n9UUAfOeFnf5JSFD3VOZ0AgyJauJ39DRcsHzu5kZl4PyxNlFss6QHXvD5rTQ87.jpg" alt="Hierarchy of Dog Needs - illustrated as a pyramid after Maslo" title="Hierarchy of Dog Needs - illustrated as a pyramid after Maslo" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 3/2; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="no-rounded" data-aspect="3:2" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/14n9UUAfOeFnf5JSFD3VOZ0AgyJauJ39DRcsHzu5kZl4PyxNlFss6QHXvD5rTQ87.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 3/2; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure>Further Reading:<ul style="list-style-type: circle;" data-mce-style="list-style-type: circle;"><li><a data-mce-href="https://www.donoharmdogtraining.com/hierarchy-of-dog-needs-presentation" href="https://www.donoharmdogtraining.com/hierarchy-of-dog-needs-presentation" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Hierarchy of Dog Needs </a>– Linda Michaels, M.A.; you can see the large format of the pyramid here.</li><li><a data-mce-href="https://avsab.org/positive-reinforcement-is-more-effective-at-training-dogs-than-an-electronic-collar-study-shows/" href="https://avsab.org/positive-reinforcement-is-more-effective-at-training-dogs-than-an-electronic-collar-study-shows/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Positive Reinforcement is More Effective at Training Dogs than an Electronic Collar</a>, Study Shows</li><li><a data-mce-href="https://www.ccpdt.org/about-us/least-intrusive-minimally-aversive-lima-effective-behavior-intervention-policy/" href="https://www.ccpdt.org/about-us/least-intrusive-minimally-aversive-lima-effective-behavior-intervention-policy/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Humane Hierarchy of Behavior Change&nbsp; and&nbsp;LIMA – Least Invasive Minimally Aversive</a> (CCPDT)</li></ul>

HDN: A Quiet Training Revolution

Female Hands Holding Golden Retriever Head

<h3>Empowering Your Dog: The Importance of Agency and Consent</h3>At See Spot Behave, we know that training isn't just about teaching commands—it’s about building a relationship based on trust, communication, and respect. Your dog isn’t a robot, a stuffed animal, or a four-legged to-do list item. They’re a thinking, feeling individual who deserves a say in their life! When we honor their choices and listen to what they’re telling us, we help them become more confident, relaxed, and engaged partners. The result? A happier dog, a more harmonious home, and an even deeper bond between you both.<figure id="figure-5snihkyumvm8203fph"><img id="5snihkyumvm8203fph" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/648006008/photo/golden-retriever-playing-with-toy-in-bed.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=RqCoJBLOO2qRTr2tceXYegYZRHpJcsyeT8p01i1_Xxc=" alt="Golden Retriever playing with toy in bed" title="Golden Retriever playing with toy in bed" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/648006008/photo/golden-retriever-playing-with-toy-in-bed.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=RqCoJBLOO2qRTr2tceXYegYZRHpJcsyeT8p01i1_Xxc=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Why Dog Agency Matters Your dog’s ability to make choices isn’t just a nice bonus—it’s essential for their emotional well-being. When we allow our dogs to express their preferences and move at their own pace, we see some truly wonderful benefits:Reduces Stress &amp; Anxiety Imagine being yanked into a surprise work meeting when you were all set for a cozy night in with Netflix and snacks. Unpleasant, right? Dogs feel the same when they’re forced into interactions they’re not ready for. When they know they can say “no,” they feel safer, which means less stress and fewer fear-based behaviors.Builds Confidence Think of a time when you successfully parallel-parked on a busy street with someone watching. It felt like winning an Olympic medal, didn’t it? Dogs need that same sense of accomplishment. Giving them small choices, like which path to take on a walk or when to engage in training, helps them develop independence and self-assurance.Strengthens the Human-Dog Bond A relationship based on mutual respect is a strong one. When your dog knows you’re listening to their needs, they become more engaged, communicative, and willing to work with you. Trust is a two-way street, and agency is a big part of that.Encourages Natural Behaviors Dogs are born explorers, detectives, and snack-seekers. They love to sniff, investigate, and engage with the world in ways that make sense to them. Letting them follow their instincts—whether that means taking their time on a walk or settling in a cozy spot—supports their overall well-being and happiness.Prevents Reactivity Imagine you’re at a party, trapped in a conversation with someone who won’t stop talking about their collection of novelty spoons. You’d probably feel tense and desperate for an escape. Dogs experience similar frustration when they feel stuck in uncomfortable situations. Giving them control over their interactions and environment prevents stress-based reactions like barking, lunging, or shutting down.<figure id="figure-da7v2sgxpm81zvnpw"><img id="da7v2sgxpm81zvnpw" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/495660090/photo/black-great-dane-puppy-face.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=FNzeg03BxJNyfaHD2XPseNwIV545s-QPnYKuTxwJ9g4=" alt="Black puppy face" title="Black puppy face" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/495660090/photo/black-great-dane-puppy-face.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=FNzeg03BxJNyfaHD2XPseNwIV545s-QPnYKuTxwJ9g4=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure>How Jet Learned to Trust Again Meet Jet, a black Lab mix who came to us anxious, defensive, and deeply uncomfortable with touch. If you so much as reached toward him, he’d slink away or grow stiff with worry. His world had taught him that human hands weren’t always kind, and he had no reason to believe otherwise. Forcing him into social interactions or petting sessions would have only confirmed his fears.Instead, we gave Jet the one thing he had never been offered before—choice. We let him decide when and where he wanted to interact with people. If he wanted space, he got it. If he wanted to hang back, we respected that. Slowly but surely, something incredible happened: Jet started seeking out company. First, he’d linger in the same room, then he’d nudge a hand for attention. We introduced consent-based touch—offering him the option to move in or away—and in time, Jet began to enjoy petting (in approved areas, of course). The real victory? Jet, the dog who once recoiled at touch, was eventually able to be examined by a vet without fear. That’s the power of agency and consent.How to Foster Agency in Your Dog Supporting your dog’s ability to make choices doesn’t have to be complicated. Here are some simple, everyday ways to encourage agency:<ul style="list-style-type: circle;" data-mce-style="list-style-type: circle;"><li>Give choices on walks: Let your dog decide which path to take or when to pause and sniff. A decompression walk—where your dog is free to explore at their own pace—is one of the best ways to promote natural behaviors and reduce stress.</li><li>Offer multiple resting places: Some dogs prefer a cozy, enclosed bed, while others like to stretch out. Provide options so they can choose where they feel safest and most comfortable.</li><li>Present food enrichment options: Instead of feeding from a bowl all the time, try using a snuffle mat, puzzle toy, or scatter feeding to engage their natural foraging instincts.</li><li>Use consent tests in handling: If you want to pet your dog, offer your hand and wait to see if they lean in or move away. The same goes for grooming, harnessing, and veterinary care—working at their pace builds trust and cooperation. </li></ul><figure id="figure-ro62aolwv1m820643a"><img id="ro62aolwv1m820643a" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/687187084/photo/woman-holding-dog-paw.jpg?b=1&s=2048x2048&w=0&k=20&c=CSLSJS4JcZa49hRy8T_jhdw0oDlhdHrC7grnsXTkeaE=" alt="Woman holding dog paw" title="Woman holding dog paw" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionX="undefined" data-positionY="undefined" data-fullWidth="false"/></figure><h3>Consent in Training and Everyday Life</h3>Consent isn’t just for humans—it’s for dogs too. Training should be a collaborative process, where your dog willingly participates rather than being forced into compliance. Respecting their comfort levels creates a sense of security and trust.How to Incorporate Consent into Training <ul style="list-style-type: circle;" data-mce-style="list-style-type: circle;"><li>Observe body language: Learn to recognize signs of discomfort, like lip licking, turning away, or avoiding eye contact. If your dog is showing these signals, it’s a sign to slow down and reassess.</li><li>Give your dog an 'out': Always allow your dog to walk away if they need a break from training, social interactions, or handling.</li><li>Offer choices in reinforcement: Some dogs love food rewards, while others are more motivated by play or praise. Let them show you what they value most.</li><li>Use start-button behaviors: Teach your dog that they can initiate interactions, such as lifting a paw for nail trims or presenting their head for a harness. This gives them control over the process and makes handling a more positive experience.</li></ul>By prioritizing agency and consent, you’re not just training a well-behaved dog—you’re nurturing a confident, emotionally secure companion who trusts you as their advocate.Are you ready to embrace a training approach that respects your dog’s voice? Contact us today to learn more about our programs and how we can help you build a stronger, more trusting relationship with your pup.

Agency and Consent - Not Just Fluff

Two Golden Retriever Waiting for Their Treats

Introduction to See Spot BehaveAt See Spot Behave, we believe that the bond between humans and their canine companions is incredibly special. Our mission is to strengthen these bonds through effective training and understanding. Over the years, we have witnessed countless success stories that showcase the transformative power of our methods.<figure id="figure-wr9kppm597m816ksf4"><img id="wr9kppm597m816ksf4" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/453143911/photo/yellow-labrador-with-a-tabby-cat-on-a-sofa.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=3ywjqUBiZDMT2_Xo1DCwtcKFrtPUChJMEMlSGB10MOk=" alt="Yellow Labrador with a tabby cat on a sofa" title="Yellow Labrador with a tabby cat on a sofa" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/453143911/photo/yellow-labrador-with-a-tabby-cat-on-a-sofa.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=3ywjqUBiZDMT2_Xo1DCwtcKFrtPUChJMEMlSGB10MOk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>The Journey to Better BehaviorMany pet owners come to us feeling overwhelmed, unsure of how to address their dog’s behavioral issues. From excessive barking to leash pulling, these challenges can strain the relationship between owner and pet. At See Spot Behave, we focus on positive reinforcement techniques that not only correct undesirable behaviors but also foster trust and communication.One of our recent success stories involves Bella, a lively Labrador Retriever who struggled with separation anxiety. Her owner, Sarah, was at her wit's end after trying various approaches without success. Through consistent training sessions and a personalized program, Bella learned to feel secure and calm when left alone, transforming the household dynamic.Building Confidence with Positive ReinforcementPositive reinforcement is at the heart of our training philosophy. By rewarding desirable behavior, dogs learn to associate good actions with positive outcomes. This method not only encourages obedience but also boosts the dog's confidence.<figure id="figure-oj7u4v62ugm80pgn37"><img id="oj7u4v62ugm80pgn37" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/174756567/photo/border-collie-sat-on-sofa-in-living-room-looking-outside.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=z8-p26IBRxStZTElG7u0o7fYaDBUUYpy4E0nms_fSB0=" alt="Border collie sat on sofa in living room looking outside" title="Border collie sat on sofa in living room looking outside" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/174756567/photo/border-collie-sat-on-sofa-in-living-room-looking-outside.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=z8-p26IBRxStZTElG7u0o7fYaDBUUYpy4E0nms_fSB0=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Take Max, a previously shy Border Collie, as an example. Max was hesitant around new people and environments, often displaying signs of anxiety. Our trainers worked closely with Max and his owner, implementing a step-by-step approach to gradually introduce new experiences. Today, Max is a confident and sociable dog who enjoys meeting new friends.The Role of ConsistencyConsistency is key when it comes to dog training. By maintaining regular routines and clear commands, dogs learn what is expected of them, leading to more reliable behavior. This was evident in the story of Duke, a German Shepherd with a tendency to jump on guests.Duke’s owners, Mark and Lisa, were dedicated to implementing the consistent guidance provided by our trainers. Through patience and persistence, Duke learned to greet visitors calmly, impressing everyone with his newfound manners.<figure id="figure-tyvz504tjnm80pgqaa"><img id="tyvz504tjnm80pgqaa" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1938009101/photo/german-shepherd-dogs-and-puppies.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=6RzqDTzO_rkWwF-sHAGgWkpwzJtheJxw4XuTmjnazgM=" alt="German Shepherd Dogs and puppies" title="German Shepherd Dogs and puppies" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1938009101/photo/german-shepherd-dogs-and-puppies.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=6RzqDTzO_rkWwF-sHAGgWkpwzJtheJxw4XuTmjnazgM=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Strengthening the Human-Dog BondUltimately, our goal at See Spot Behave is to strengthen the bond between dogs and their owners. A well-behaved dog is a joy to be around and can participate more fully in family activities. Our training helps dogs become more integrated members of the family, enhancing the overall quality of life for everyone involved.The story of Charlie and his owner Emily illustrates this beautifully. Charlie was a rescue dog with a history of neglect and mistrust. Through our compassionate training methods, Emily was able to build a deep bond with Charlie based on mutual respect and understanding. Today, they enjoy hiking and road trips together as inseparable companions.Conclusion: Celebrating SuccessThe success stories from See Spot Behave are a testament to the power of patience, understanding, and effective training. Each transformation is unique, yet they all share a common theme: the amazing potential for positive change when dogs and their owners work together towards a common goal.We are proud of the work we do at See Spot Behave and remain committed to helping more dogs and their humans build strong, lasting bonds.

Building Bonds: Success Stories

See Spot Behave

Core Values:
Lead with kindness and respect
Listen with an open heart
Teach our clients how dogs see the world
Build loving relationships between clients and their dogs
Acknowledge we are all learning how to be better dog partners

At See Spot Behave, we believe every person deserves a harmonious, empowering relationship with their cherished canine companion. We lead with kindness and listen with open hearts, guiding you to discover the world through your dog's eyes. Our personalized, compassionate approach transforms training into a journey of mutual growth—one that builds trust, deepens bonds, and celebrates every step of your shared adventure. Join our community of empowered dog lovers and experience a connection where both you and your dog thrive in confidence, joy, and understanding.

At See Spot Behave, we offer warm, personalized dog training with a boutique, concierge approach. Founded by Diane Smith, M.A., and supported by behavior consultant Devi Puckett, M.Ed., CPDT-KA, CCBC-KA, and FFCP, we blend expert, science-based methods with genuine care to build lasting bonds between you and your dog. Whether you’re welcoming a new pet or addressing behavior challenges, our tailored programs ensure every session is both transformative and inviting.

Dogs and humans have different ways of looking at the world and the more you understand your dog’s perceptions, the better equipped you are to meet his needs and live together happily. By using positive reinforcement methods of training, we at See Spot Behave can help you communicate clearly with your dog so you can shape the behavior you want while maintaining trust and strengthening your relationship with your dog.

Our training sessions include information about dog behavior, dog communication and how dogs learn. We also understand that your dog is part of your family and that it is important to get the whole family on board with training for consistency. By keeping training sessions short, upbeat and fun, your dog will soon be offering you good behaviors and you’ll get a smile out of your dog’s eagerness to learn.

Behavioral Modification: problem-solving
Your dog is jumping, nipping, biting, barking, destroying things, afraid of noises, scared at the vet or outings, doesn’t listen or come back when you call, guards food or possessions, or is reactive to other dogs and animals. Your walks are tough with your lunging, barking dog and you’re ready for a change where you aren’t afraid to leave the house. Or you are worried that your dog may dash out the door…etc.

Any of these challenging behaviors can be modified with science-based, positive, fear-free techniques - our certified professional trainers are experienced, educated in canine behavior modification, and we love problem-solving. Call us for a free phone consultation - we would love to help you.
Empowering Dogs and Their Humans: Our Philosophy
At See Spot Behave, we believe that every dog deserves a voice—and that true partnership begins when both you and your canine are empowered to make choices. Just as you thrive when your preferences are honored, your dog flourishes when its natural instincts and desires are respected. This philosophy of canine agency is at the heart of our approach, creating happier, more confident, and well-adjusted companions.
Why Dog Agency Matters
Reduces Stress & Anxiety:
Dogs can feel overwhelmed when forced into unwanted interactions. Allowing them the choice to engage—or not—creates a sense of safety and reduces fear-based behaviors.
Builds Confidence:
When your dog decides on its own pace—choosing which path to take on a walk or when to join in training—it develops independence and self-assurance.
Strengthens the Human-Dog Bond:
Respecting your dog’s signals and choices fosters trust, deepening the connection between you and your furry friend.
Encourages Natural Behaviors:
By giving your dog opportunities to sniff, explore, and rest, you support its natural instincts and overall well-being.
Prevents Reactivity:
Offering choices helps reduce frustration and prevents behavioral issues by allowing your dog to gracefully navigate stressful situations.
Coaching: A Partnership Beyond Traditional Training
Traditional training often focuses solely on obedience. At See Spot Behave, we go further by coaching pet parents—empowering you with the knowledge and skills to truly understand your dog’s behavior. This approach transforms training into a collaborative journey, where you learn to interpret your dog’s needs and respond with empathy.
Encourages Critical Thinking:
We help you understand the “why” behind your dog’s behavior, turning challenges into opportunities for learning and growth.
Deepens the Bond:
Our coaching emphasizes communication, enabling you to recognize subtle cues and build a more trusting, loving relationship.
Empowers You for Lifelong Success:
With our guidance, you’ll gain the confidence to handle real-life situations as your dog grows and evolves—making you both resilient and adaptable.
Focuses on a Holistic Lifestyle:
Beyond teaching commands, our approach considers your dog’s daily routines, emotional needs, and natural behaviors—ensuring a balanced, fulfilling life.
Prevents Burnout:
By shifting from a command-and-control mindset to one of partnership and understanding, you’ll feel supported every step of the way, reducing frustration and fostering joy.

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